In In Limbo by Deb J.J. Lee, a Korean American teenager navigates the pressures of identity, mental health, and family expectations in a deeply personal memoir. Deborah (Jung-Jin) Lee has always known she’s different from her peers ever since her family emigrated from South Korea. She often feels like she doesn’t fit in. Her teachers mispronounce her Korean name, her English isn’t perfect, and her classmates tease her for her appearance—especially her eyes, which look different from theirs.
As high school draws to a close, the pressure to get into a good college and maintain strong grades begins to take a toll on Deb. To make things worse, her friendships are shifting, and she feels like her friends are leaving her behind. School becomes a place of alienation, but home offers no relief. Tensions with her mother escalate, and Deb begins to feel like she’s spiraling out of control.
I thought the graphic novel was okay. It's difficult to critique someone’s real-life experiences, so I approached it as if it were a fictionalized story. I had a hard time connecting with Deb at times. The narrative would occasionally jump back and forth, making it hard to follow certain events. Sometimes the story hinted at deeper issues but didn’t fully explore them, and some events seemed to happen abruptly without enough buildup.
That said, I sympathize with Deb and saw parallels between her experiences and my own. When my family moved from South America, I was also teased for my unique name. It was difficult to balance my heritage with my new American identity and to feel like I truly belonged. Deb also explores emotional trauma in her relationships with friends and family, and I could relate to some of those struggles.
While the illustration style was appealing, I personally would have preferred a more colorful palette.




